Men Women Think They Want, Until They Actually Get Them

"The Thug"

Wikipedia defines the term "thug" as the following...

Thug: [thuhg] : 

"A common criminal, who treats others violently and roughly, often for hire. Often a member of a gang, as an enforcer in organized crime (See also : mafia, gang, organized crime.)"

We all know that Hip Hop is influencing the wider culture. The "thug" image is everywhere. It is glorified all throughout culture from magazines, to award shows, to music videos even R&B group Destiny's Child transformed the "Thug" into an icon, giving  them the stamp of approval in the song "Soldier"- a tribute  and  anthem for the bad boy.

"The Flirt"

Sweet talking.. wanna hug every girl they know in the presence of other girls they don't know to seem irresistible...EXTREMELY touchy feel-ly, to the point of  people asking.. "are y'all talking?"(chicken head voice) ..he's always displaying sexual interest... He's cocky, I mean wayyy past confident.. ego can't even fit through the door when he walks in. We've all seen 'him', in our class, at parties....shoot some of us are dating "the flirt." o_0 Sooner or later we all fall prey to this charm he possesses. It won't last for ever though.. like Forever 21 earrings all that glitters, is certainly NOT gold.

"The Push-over"

He's the dude woman test their material on. From moves ( ; ..to jokes...topics to argue about.. to personal shoppers we drag to every Victoria Secret Semi-Annual Sale. He's the one standing in line while the salesman discusses your cup size, flirtatiously telling you how good you'd look in their newest push up bra. . shame on you ( ;  ."The Push-over" has been hurt so many times, he doesn't know he's being played, and shoot, you're not about to tell him...Who's gonna pay for that new JuicyCouture purse you've been eyeballing ? Being TOO nice can easily become aggravating and is just plain annoying. Every girl wants a REAL man, and it's definitely a turn-off when you can control your dude like a sub-servant sheep!  Females let your man be the "head", but ladies you're the "neck" you control the direction. 

"B.M.O.C.---> Big Man on Campus"

The B.M.O.C possesses a lot of friends, a hip wardrobe, an infectious smile, he might have a sports background and works out on the regular. The B.M.O.C most definitely has a great sense of humor, and is usually the center of attraction when he's in the room. The B.M.O.C. gets a lot of love, sometimes it may even be too much, allowing him to think he's above the law. He may even have a "flock of birds" we all know it comes with the territory. Is it worth being with a dude who has a legion of loyal fans.. soon enough you too will be another one of his "admirers." The B.M.O.C. is the ideal guy... the problem is that he's the ideal guy for everyone.

*  "Women Men Think They Want, Until They Actually Get Them" (coming soon)