A great message to all the ladies about how you shouldn't measure your self worth based on whether you have a man to claim as yours.
I know its cuffing season but hey that's what a heater, blankets and Sex and the City dvds. Its okay to fantasize about your Mr. Big until he comes around rather than settle for a Kevin Federline just so you can feel special.
Same kinda goes for guys, is it necessary to be smashing grenades just so you can brag to your boys about how many girls you got with that weekend.
Select don't settle, because Settling= Unhappiness, and that would be kinda contradictory to our goal in life right... you know the Pursuit of Happiness.
Be sure to check out his other videos, cause this man ain't speaking nothing but the dang truth!
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Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Signs That They May Only See You As A Sideline H**
Becoming someone's side piece is nothing that those of us in our right minds would aspire to be. Here is a list of no-no's that someone you are dating or 'talking to' may try to pull, and somethings you just shouldn't do.
1. LET ME GIVE YOU MY NUMBER
Call me old school, but I feel that if a man is interested in a woman he should ask for her number. When you, (the desperate looking one) jumps and says "you know what let me give you my number" you are the one left feeling silly wondering if they will actually call. You might as well be saying "here is my phone number, use it at your discretion, like when you have nothing else to do, because I'm going to be checking my phone every five minutes crossing my fingers that you will give me a chance."
Did I mention that doing this makes you look desperate...
Just checking.
2. THEY NEVER HIT YOU UP IN THE DAY TIME
If they have never hit you up before 5pm, you might want to take a step back an re-evaluate some things. When someone hits you up before the day is over, it lets you know that they are going through their day with you on their mind. All those evening and late nights calls could just be a result of them not having a dang thing to do, so they scroll through their contact list and decide to hit you up.
3. AFTER PARTY PLANS?
This happens to all of us at one point, when you run into someone you have been talking to at a party. Just to not be awkward you chat with them for a bit, and they ask you what you are doing after. Now see if the two of you never spoke about your evening plans, and now it's 2:53 A.M., towards the end of the night, they want to have you come over so you guys can 'chill.' Houston, we have a problem! If you were not in their original plans for the night, you are basically the *bonus*... a night cap.
4. YOU NEVER LEAVE THE HOUSE
If you are not married with kids there is no excuse for all of your dates/chill sessions/kickin it (whatever you kids call it these days ) to be in the house. The basic truth is that he knows that the chances of you two hooking up are higher at home than while out at Sizzlers . Simple.
I know there are way more signs, feel free to share what you have learned & pimps share some of your tricks!
1. LET ME GIVE YOU MY NUMBER
Call me old school, but I feel that if a man is interested in a woman he should ask for her number. When you, (the desperate looking one) jumps and says "you know what let me give you my number" you are the one left feeling silly wondering if they will actually call. You might as well be saying "here is my phone number, use it at your discretion, like when you have nothing else to do, because I'm going to be checking my phone every five minutes crossing my fingers that you will give me a chance."
Did I mention that doing this makes you look desperate...
Just checking.
2. THEY NEVER HIT YOU UP IN THE DAY TIME
If they have never hit you up before 5pm, you might want to take a step back an re-evaluate some things. When someone hits you up before the day is over, it lets you know that they are going through their day with you on their mind. All those evening and late nights calls could just be a result of them not having a dang thing to do, so they scroll through their contact list and decide to hit you up.
3. AFTER PARTY PLANS?
This happens to all of us at one point, when you run into someone you have been talking to at a party. Just to not be awkward you chat with them for a bit, and they ask you what you are doing after. Now see if the two of you never spoke about your evening plans, and now it's 2:53 A.M., towards the end of the night, they want to have you come over so you guys can 'chill.' Houston, we have a problem! If you were not in their original plans for the night, you are basically the *bonus*... a night cap.
4. YOU NEVER LEAVE THE HOUSE
If you are not married with kids there is no excuse for all of your dates/chill sessions/kickin it (whatever you kids call it these days ) to be in the house. The basic truth is that he knows that the chances of you two hooking up are higher at home than while out at Sizzlers . Simple.
I know there are way more signs, feel free to share what you have learned & pimps share some of your tricks!
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